Friends = happiness

dear Juliet, 
I just want to say, its okay. I think, maybe, i dont really need a romeo. 

Cos i think i have the bestest friends in the world. i have them, omg they're perfect! Absolutely!! and my crazy, irritating family. i think maybe, just maybe, i have enough.

so if u re having a shortage on Juliet please, feel free to give them all the emo Edward Cullen of the world.
but of course, if u have a spare (hot) one, i dont mind taking her either.

Love

although Juliet, i must say, it would be REALLY cool, if we could ALL have super powers. 

like...

i ll have everlasting beauty like...i dont know...fairy tale

Kiya can be...BATGIRL (I mean batman but in this case batman is the girl, so batgirl). (cos bats are kind of related to chickens, arent they? i mean they both have wings)

Bule ...i dont know...she should be...ELASTIC GIRL. (HAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

Wellya  ...hmmm...this is a tough one...HAPPY FEET!! (i know this isnt a super power, but i dont care! happy feet is cute and stupid. like them. hahahaha plus i cant give rachel cheng superpowers she ll bully me)

Edha and Intan DONT GET SUPERPOWERS COS THEY RE ALREADY SILENTLY PERSON HAHA.

Ceha ...hmmmmm...she can be...PERCY JACKSON AND THE NOISY THIEF. HAHAHAHA

Our bet

This time, I'll tell you my experience, regarding the betting game between me and my bestfriend. So that the reader doesnt get bored and certainly curious, isn't it? Hehe, let's start.

Kali ini, saya dan teman saya (Identitas masih dirahasiakan) pergi ke tempat ini. Brussel Spring ini sejenis lounge yang mempunyai tema yang unik dan atmosphere nya cozy.

Sebenarnya taruhan ini berawal dari teman saya yang memesan teh yang memiliki rasa 'khas'. Entah kami yang kampungan, tidak tahu selera, atau memang rasa teh nya yang aneh. Lupakan saja, karena kami mahasiswa bukan chef ataupun juri dalam ajang masak hehe. Teh tersebut bernama 'Blossom Tea' Karena memang teh nya berbentuk bunga yang mengembang didalam teko yang berisi air panas. Lalu, kamu tinggal menuangkan saja teh nya kedalam cangkir yang sudah disediakan. Dan, betapa beruntungnya saya, teh tersebut dipesan oleh teman saya, haha.

Teman saya membawa kartu remi. Mulailah kami bermain 'cangkulan', karena kami hanya berdua saja. Dari situ saya sendiri mencetuskan ide untuk bermain 'cangkulan' dengan mempunyai konsekuensi. Yang kalah harus menghabiskan teh tersebut. Hahaha, well, teman saya setuju, perang dimulai!

Mari perkenalkan kedua peserta kali ini. Peserta pertama adalah :

Ini adalah saya sendiri.

Nama : Akbar Fajri

Panggilan : Abay

Umur : 20 Tahun

Status : Mahasiswa

Penghasilan : Tergantung orang tua

Suku : Jawa

Watak : Hangat, pekerja keras, luhur budi pekerti.

Sekarang, perkenalkan peserta kedua adalah :

Nah ini adalah teman saya yang saya rahasiakan identitasnya tadi

Nama : Raysita Sidik

Panggilan : Cicik

Umur : 20Tahun

Status : Mahasiswa + Asisten Rumah Tangga (Pendatang dari luar kota)

Penghasilan : Tergantung orang tua

Suku : Medan

Watak : Keras, pekerja keras, logat suara medan asli.

Nah ini dia blossom tea alias poison yang menjadi hadiah bagi si yang kalah.

Rasanya, sangatlah aneh dan tidak bisa dideskripsikan lebih lanjut, untuk anda yang penasaran, silahkan coba sendiri.

Sekarang, taruhan dimulai dengan permainan kartu. Dan entah mengapa, waktu yang dibutuhkan dalam permainan begitu lama, mungkin karena ada reinforcement untuk kali ini haha.

Nah foto ini adalah 20 menit sudah berlalu permainan kami. Semangatnya masih membara.

Nah foto ini adalah 40 menit sudah berlalu, Semangatnya sudah mulai kendor. Entah kenapa rasanya pasrah siapapun itu yang menjadi loser.

Dan permainan pun terus berlanjut, tidak lama dari 40 menti tersebut, akhirnya pemenang muncul!

Pemenangnya adalah AKBAR! alias saya sendiri, hahahahahahaha. It mean, saya tidak usah meneguk poison tersebut! Lanjut! Mau tau ekspresi teman saya ketika dia meneguk kekalahan. Check it out!

Nah ini dia posion yang sudah dihabiskan teman saya alias cicik. Hahahaha, Saya pun tidak tahu rasa nya bagaimana dia harus menghabiskan setengah cangkir besar tersebut, dan seperti terlihat pada gambar, cangkir tersebut sudah habis. Nah mau liat keadaan cicik, ayo kita lihat bersama, count down.

3.............

2............

1...........

Ini dia!! hahahahahah lihat teko nya ia pegang, dan sudah habis.

Nah ini dia yang kami tunggu-tunggu. Inilah loser dari taruhan kami berdua, hahaha lihat ekspresinya. Dia pasrah dan entah apa reaksi yang terjadi di dalam perutnya setelah meneguk habis teh aneh itu.

Well, the experience I had with one of my best friends. Thanks for keep reading, readers :)

Regards!



Me

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.  You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.  You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row. You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace. People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life. You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip. People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them.

You are full of energy. You are spirited and boisterous. You are bold and daring. You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things. Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble. You can have a pretty bad temper at times.

You are loving, compassionate, and ruled by your feelings. You are able to be a foundation for other people... but you still know how to have fun. Sometimes your emotions weigh you down, but you generally feel free from them.

You are fair, honest, and logical. You are a natural leader, and people respect you. You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries. You are rational enough to see every part of a problem. You are great at giving other people advice.

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

Tired

tired of crying. tired of trying. tired of putting in effort to keep people in my life when they just don't want to be there. i shouldn't have to fight for a spot in anyone's life. why should i try so hard when i don't mean anything to them anymore? its not like i didn't try my best. it just kept failing to a point where i don't think i should try anymore. i'm trying too hard. tired. really exhausted. people are just too disappointing sometimes.

i'm sorry my friends. i'm very extremely sorry to those that care and got worried. i'm just not a very strong person. i thank you all for all you guys have done for me. i love all of you really. don't ever leave me please. thank you and sorry for making you all so worried and sleepless. i'm really sorry i owe you all everything i can offer to owe hahaha. thank you. really.

right now i'm so tired i don't even bother to think about all those things that are making me sad. i don't want to solve those problems anymore. they can just remain in a small corner of me until i find the strength to solve everything again. when those people want to.

i need an escape. i need a holiday, i need one very extremely badly. anyone on for a holiday? let's go tgt? :) call me ok hehehe or text me i want to go on a long holiday. like at least a week or smth.

beautiful ppl

Today.........its going to be a long, wordy post (again). This time its (possibly) going to be even longer than all my previous posts. I used to think blogging with a lot of words is actually kinda pointless because, hey, who's going to be so free to read that chunk of who-knows-what-you're-trying-to-say-crap-its-all-complaints-anyway right? Then I realise that I'm blogging for myself. To release all the pent-up frustration/stress/angst/whatever. If I even have readers, I thank each and every single one because I know y'all are my beloved friends! ♡

Firstly, friends. I'm so afraid of letting anyone in already. By that I don't mean another random dude that's going to capture my heart and break it in the end again, but just anyone that even wants to be my friend. All the people you love, will let you down. And vice versa, you will also be a letdown to the people you love in one way or another. I don't want to let down the people I love, neither do I want to be let down. So many things have been happening these days, I wonder when its ever going to end. I treasure each and every person I'm friends with, aquaintance or best bud. I cry a lot whenever I lose someone in my life. I don't know why I'm such a softie. I may be guilty of saying harsh things - so harsh they may ruin everything I ever have with that someone I was harsh to. But everytime after I say all that mean crap, I feel guilty and bad even if I wasn't so much in the wrong. No, I am not saying that I don't have faults at all, I do. 

Anyway, I just want to say that I am very thankful for the people who have stuck around since I knew you. Really. I appreciate each and every one of you a truckload I don't know what I did to deserve y'all. Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!! ♡♡♡

Mengukur Eksistensi

 

Sejauh mana Anda eksis di dunia internet? Ini pertanyaan menggelitik namun grudgingly banyak blogger yang tertarik. Dan kini ada cara yang lumayan konyol namun menurut saya sahih juga.

Bukalah situs Google (anda gagal dalam eksistensi tahap dasar bila masih menanyakan URL). Google kini dilengkapi dengan instrumen "suggestion" yang akan memberikan beberapa alternatif bersamaan dengan Anda mengetik. Inilah barometer eksistensi.

Coba ketik nama Anda. Semakin eksis Anda, Google hanya membutuhkan sedikit mungkin karakter untuk menampilkan nama di barisan suggestion. Vice versa. Anda yang tidak ngetop butuh mengetikkan semua huruf yang ada di nama Anda.

Barack Obama butuh 5 huruf diketik (B-A-R-A-C) sebelum Google menampilkan suggestion yang tepat. Untuk itu ia patut iri kepada fenomena Bieber. Hanya mengetik J-U, Google telah mendapatkan Justin Bieber dalam kolom sugesti.

Dalam konteks lokal, Presiden SBY hanya butuh 4 huruf untuk memunculkan "Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono". Aktris Agnes Monica yang sejak lama ingin eksis internasional boleh berbangga. Cobalah ketik A-G, maka Agnes akan muncul bersamaan dengan Agni Pratistha dan Agung Podomoro. Ini jelas "mengalahkan" Anggun yang membutuhkan empat huruf sebelum ditampilkan Google.

Suggestion ini merupakan hasil rangkuman entry yang ada dikandung Google (alamat URL, situs dan sebagainya), ditambah dengan kecenderungan nama atau kata tersebut diketik di bar pencarian. Di satu masa, ketika heboh dengan videonya, Luna Maya bisa muncul bahkan ketika kita mengetik huruf L! Sekarang effort sedikit bertambah karena harus menambahkan U-N sebelum si cantik muncul.

Nah, kini cobalah mengukur eksistensi Anda. Saya sendiri membutuhkan 10 huruf sebelum nama "Akbar Fajri" muncul. Ya, itu semua huruf dan satu spasi! Rupanya saya tidak begitu beken di dunia maya.

Daddy Is Amazing

I like the idea of celebrating the Father's Day, even if there is no official Father's Day date in my country (Indonesia). We just celebrate the Mother's Day on December 22, and I'm not sure either why my country has no official date for Father's Day, but I just love the idea of honoring the man that gave us his legacy.

Even if, naturally a father is the provider in the family, I think it will be great if we say our gratitude and do something special for this special man. There was actually a declaration about Father's Day in Indonesia (November 12, 2006 in Solo-Central Java and Flores-East Nusa Tenggara), but still, there are many Indonesian people don't know about this. (It's kind of weird isn't it? haha) And so many date on international declaration about father's day. And one of is today, 19th June.

But anyway, Father's Day has been so popular in Asia too, and many Asian countries celebrating the Father's Day with the same way as Western countries. Evidence of days or festivals celebrating fathers can be found as far back as 4,000 years ago. However, it is widely acknowledged that the efforts of a Ms. Sonora Dodd were what led to the eventual creation- in 1972- of the formal holiday as it is known today.

More than himself, a Father would like his children have more opportunities, face just a few difficulties, more independent and (but) always need his presence. Daddy only ask you to do the work you like. Daddy let you win the game when you were young, but he won't let you win when you're grown up. Daddy won't be in the family album because he took the pictures. Daddy always keep his promise. He will keep his promise to help a friend, though your invitation to go fishing actually is more interesting . Daddy will always set your electric train toys for years, though you have been bored, because he still want you to play the train. Daddy will a little bit sad when his children play with their friends. He realize that it's the end of their childhood. Daddy start to plan your life when he knew that your mom is pregnant (you), but at the time you were born, he started to make revision.

Daddy will help you to make your dream come true and he can assure you to do impossible things, like floating on the water after he release you. Daddy perhaps does not know the answer of everything, but he helps you find it. Daddy perhaps looks fierce in your eye, but in your friend's eyes he looks funny and care.

Daddy is hard to face his gray hair..so he blamed his barber of cutting to much hair of him. Daddy will always love to help you do your homework, unless the newest math homework. Daddy is slow to have friend, but he is friend for life. Daddy is really love to help someone..but he hardly asked for help. Daddy always postpone to bring the car to the workshop, because he thinks he could fix it himself. Daddy is in the kitchen. He thinks cook is like science discovery. He has his own formula and only him will understand how to explain the complicated equation. And the result ? mmmh not bad. He will boast that only him who's able to cook the fusion dishes, like sushi and wienerschnitzel mix with potato salad. Daddy may never touch broom when he was young, but he could learn fast. Daddy will really love if the whole family eat dinner together though the electricity went off. Daddy will know the most how to pull the swing high enough to make you happy but not afraid. Daddy will give you the best seat, put you on his shoulder when the parade started.

Daddy will not spoil you when you're sick, but he won't sleep for the night. In case you need him. Daddy think you should independent, so he won't tell you what you have to do, but he will express his disagree.

Daddy believe that you should on time that's why he always wait for you with his old car, to take you on your first day to school. Daddy is generous..he will forget what he wants, so that he could give you what you needed.  Daddy let your scarecrow wears his sweater. Daddy will buy you lollipop that you ask, and eat it if you don't like. Daddy will stop everything that he worked on, if you like to talk..

Daddy always think and work hard to pay your tuition fee, though you never help count his wringkles Even he will love to hear your advice to stop his smoking habit. Daddy will lift your burden from your shoulder with his hands around the burden. Daddy will said "Ask your mom" when he liked to say "no". Daddy was never angry, but his face will be red-faced when his daughter was staying at a friend's house without permission. And he almost never angry, except when he found his son smoking in the bathroom.


Dad says "it's okay to take a little risk only you have to prepare lose what you expect."  The best compliment for daddy was when he saw you do something just like his way .... Daddy is more proud of your accomplishments, rather than his own accomplishments ... Daddy just will shake your hand the first time you left the house, because if he hugged you it probably never be released. Daddy thought a hundred is a tip ..; Thousand is allowance ..; Your first salary is too big for him.


Daddy does not like to shed a tear .... when you were born, and he heard you crying for the first time, he was very pleased until the tear out of his eyes (ssst.. but again this is not crying). When you were little, he can hold you to expel your fear when you dream ... to be killed the monster ... but ..... he was able to cry and could not sleep through the night, when his favorite daughter in the foreign country does not give the news for nearly a month.

I think my daddy once said: "If you want to get a sharp sword and a high quality, do not look it in the market much less from flea market, but come and order directly from the good iron. As well as with love and friends in your life, if you want to find true love someday, then asked for and order to Him that created them "

For his son future, daddy told his son: "Be strong and tougher than me, choose a mother for your future children a better woman than your mother, give a better for daughter in law and my grandchildren, than what have I give to you"

For his daughter future, daddy told his daughter: "Do not wimp though you're a woman, be my little angel and is always the best angel to the father of your children someday! A man who can protect you more than me, but never replace my position in your heart."

Daddy insisted, that your children will have to be better than you used to ....

Daddy can make you believe in yourself ... because he believes in you ...

Daddy did not try to be the best, but he's just trying to do the best ....

And most important is ... Daddy never stop you to love God, even he would spread a thousand roads so you can reach His love, because he loves you because of His love.

Dedicated to all daddy in the world.